Getting a mentor in Malaysia — how to find one and what to actually ask them
by Azizi Bakar·May 24, 2026
Most people are waiting to be mentored. The initiative has to come from you.
Finding a mentor:
- LinkedIn outreach to people 5—10 years ahead, with a specific and brief reason why
- Alumni networks from your university or previous company
- Industry events — follow up within 48 hours of meeting someone relevant
How to ask: "I've been following your work on [specific thing] and it's really relevant to [what you're working on]. Would you be open to a 30-minute call once a quarter? I won't take more time than that."
What to ask in sessions:
- Specific situations you're navigating, not general career advice
- "What would you do in this situation and why?"
- "Who else should I be talking to?"
What makes a good mentee: Doing what you said you'd do, following up, making it worth their time.