Back to Forum

Two years fully remote and how it changed my mental health — both directions

by Farhan Zainal·May 25, 2026

Moved to fully remote in 2023. Here's the honest mental health impact in both directions.

What improved:
- No commute recovered 2—3 hours per day. That time went to sleep, exercise, and cooking. Physical health improved measurably.
- Fewer incidental stressors — office noise, interruptions, the energy cost of constant small social navigation
- More time with family

What got worse:
- Social isolation is real. I didn't realise how much casual human contact at work was doing until it was gone.
- The absence of a physical boundary between work and home. The laptop is always there.
- A subtle but persistent sense of invisibility — "if I'm not seen, do I matter?"

What I changed:
Deliberate social commitments that I treat like work meetings. Two co-working days per week. Weekly calls with a friend, not just text.

The mental health outcome of remote work depends enormously on how you actively design your life around it.

#remote-work#mental-health#isolation#wellbeing
334 upvotes6 comments

Comments (6)

Yin Tze Ho22

I invoice in USD for international clients and MYR for local. Currency risk is real — when USD strengthens, my effective rate goes up without raising prices.

Fazillah Ahmad17

Wise (formerly TransferWise) for receiving international payments saves significantly vs bank wire transfers. The exchange rate difference on RM 10k+ is meaningful.

Lim Kian Aik12

My biggest tax mistake: not keeping receipts for professional development expenses. All my Udemy, Coursera, and conference costs were deductible — I claimed zero in year one.