Getting referrals in Malaysia — how to ask without making it awkward
by Arman Razali·May 24, 2026
A referral dramatically increases your chances of getting an interview. But asking for one feels uncomfortable for most people. Here's how to do it.
First: make sure the person can actually refer you positively. A referral from someone who doesn't know your work well is nearly useless. Build the relationship before you need the favour.
How to ask:
"I saw that [Company] is hiring for [Role]. I think it could be a great fit based on [specific reason]. You know my work, would you feel comfortable putting in a good word or referring me internally? I completely understand if it's not a good time or if you'd rather not."
Give them an easy out. "If you'd rather not, no pressure at all" is not just polite, it makes people feel safe to say yes when they do want to help.
Give them what they need:
Send your CV and a brief note on why you're interested and what you'd bring. Make it easy for them to forward something useful, not just your name.